Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts

Updates n 2 states..

>> November 06, 2009

To start of with-2 states the story of my marriage....Normally, Im not the book review types- atleast not blog about it. But this book was so good, I couldnt help myself.I picked up 2 states…by Chetan Bhagat (5 point someone fame) The book has a very simple premise as mentioned in the blurb. ..Boy loves Girl, Girl loves boy, they get married, but in India ...the boy+girl+families from both sides gotta love everyone else ...remotely connected for it to work out. ...CB has played out the characters smartly with a role reversal ( Boy is from North –punjab & girl is Tam Bram) which well seems to be the opposite in most cases in reality[talking out of experience] ... From the meeting in a B School to juggling high flying corporate careers and weird families..Reading about the exaggerated stereotyping of South Indians was a little insulting [cb mentioned its nt to insult but still..]and amusing at the same time. I couldn’t help but agree with the observations made....‘Knowledge is what Tam Brams seek...Education is the highest honour’ to ‘ Dark and Mustached and Rajini worshipping’. The scenes of a punjabi struggling in chennai – autos/no non veg/no beer + ultra conservative had me smiling the entire time. ..there is a scene in Ratna Stores – the beloved wholesale utlity store,the loyola college location to the guindy iit...the karpagambal mandapam.. famous for the brams..mylapore.. thrown in to complete the Chennai experience...there has been an excess family drama thrown in for good measure, mother vs girlfriend will make the concerend reader squirm endlessly.... the romance between the two is brought out very neatly with of course the physical intimacy teasingly left to the readers imagination.[:P] i m quite imaginative..Girls would melt on antics don by the protagonist to win over the family of the his girlfriend.. Guys would be up the entire night having to listen to their girlfriends on the above. Boy takes tuitions for girls brother for IIT coaching at 5 in the morning..man what some guys do to get a girl..Id sacrifice 5 years of my life rather than getting up at 5 in the morning.... unless there was another book like this to read or something! I deliberately don’t want to give away the plot, its fairly simple... but wish to highlight that this book will closely connect to so many people out here in India who face the same issue that the couple face in the book.Sply ppl out der in my college... The beauty of the book is the way it is handled sply the english is simple...n i ve never laughed so much for a book..sply the part where the kasi yatra is done..n those mickey mouse dancing..lol.. ananya loves disney characters.. My god..My favourite book ever.. I actually found myself looking for clues on how to deal with such issues from the book ....like im sure a lot of guys in the boys place would..Highly engrossing and very lump-in-throat.... this book is a winner from the page 1. ....Would make a great gift to your someone special and a good hint hint book too .....Highly Recommended Reading. Dedicated to everyone who went through what Krish and Anaya went through Need I say more?Guess u guys understood i m so in love with this book.. n wit udhayanidhi stalin..he's so cute.. cant help myself..lol.. I drank bacardi..it just tasted like lemonade..heard its gt 20% alchohol though..n btw i gt a sound sleep after that waking up early heading to college to get my hall ticket wit a terrible headache.. I am so gonna get screwed btw...exams n havent touched my buks yet...i m supposed to b studying nw instead of blogging.. n theres lot to update here though..its been ages i miss blogging, i miss my frends,i miss my life..i dnt wanna sound all crappy but really wish everythng wud be normal.. how hard it is to meet ppl's eyes n talk when u have so much in your heart to tell them but you know you shouldnt n cant.. trust me..its real hard..n u run out of speeches.. hope it doesnt continue for long..u know i sumtyms evn get to thinking that ppl r betraying but then i m nt that bad chooser..everything has a solution n i ve decided time is the best solution for this.. n coming to updates..i got a psp.. dnt even know y.. by d way i m taking up driving classes..promised myself i wud get a car next yr.. hopefully..may b finally..lol.. n window shopping wit nisha..fun as always[thnks nish,luv ya]... Skywalk mall..its a real cool place..cant wait to watch a movie wit her der..n i like that food debit crds..its a lot easier..had a gud tym there. When relationships take a tym off n its tym to decide stuff..how d hell do u ve to understand that ppl r avoiding.. r they busy? or really avoiding? i dunno how to judge or even i hve to judge.. i never had problems like these before..I started missing bharath a lot..i wish he's here.. he always helped me wit my decisions.. n i miss him d most wen i need some one to tak to..n i am gonna stop complaining n i btr get bk to my dreaming session wit my buks... i am gonna try n be gud n cheerful..i m better than this... i can be better than this.. time is the best healer..!!!!

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>> July 19, 2009


I read a line somewhere which affected me appropriately at the right moment of my life.And I thought it was good to share here..




உன் நட்பு என்னும் சிறையில் சிக்கி கொண்டேன், தவறுகள் செய்தால் தண்டித்து விடு..., ஆனால் விடுதலை மட்டும் செய்துவிடாதே..





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Happy Bday Lessssshhhhh!!!!!!!!!!

>> July 13, 2009

After a long tym i m posting thats coz its nish's bday today..I m happy that she is my best friend on earth wateva happens..Happy Bday nish!!! i love you so much!! Ur the best thing ever happened to me who ll stay ever with me.I don't even remeber how *we got to b frends may b thatsy we r still together..I owe it to the science project we did to together that made us close. though i dont talk to her much nor text her she is always my best.Being a friend is not about just sharing a joke,a conversation,or going shopping.It means sharing a honest and true part of yourself which she always did.I promise her i ll always b there for her the same way.Many more happy returns of the day.its just another day of the year.But the best day of the year.A Birthday is A Million Moments, Each holding A Promise Of Fulfillment Of UR Dreams.

Happy birthday once again sweety!!!! i love you so much!!!! Muaaaaahhh!!!

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Stress Buster

>> May 28, 2009







My stress buster is shopping.Quite not shopping.Coz itz sometimes stressful when i do it with my parents or anyother person except Nish.Though it was not a lot of shopping just a few hrs it was fun n really good time we had.After a long time i went out with her today.It felt like ages we had done this.Realizing how much i missed that bond of friendship when i dont keep in touch with people properly shutting out from the outside world.The minute we started out we gossiped,got cosmetics n stuff n had total fun.While i was returning home i was full of energy and felt like i had the whole day ahead.Not a pinch tired though i had been standing for days.Today will be one more memorable day n though i dont have much to write down i want this to be remembered for ever.Thnks for being my best friend nish.Luv ya forever.. N thnks to the person who made me do this.I realized how much i missed it.







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I am Afraid of not missing YoU!!

>> April 28, 2009

There are people whom you think you can never forget in your life what may come...





You talk for hours, you laugh, you joke, you cry, you have a good time together.

You grow closer to each other...Start trusting, Feel others thoughts, share more than your life ...anything and everything.




You don’t give a damn to anything else when the person needs you,Your there and they r there for u..You know each others thoughts...

Life without them becomes impossible at first,later they become inseparable part of your life..They are a big part of it like your parents,like your boyfriend or girl friend.They are not just any friend,You consider them BEST friend.

Fights come and go..But that doesn’t change anything. Egos fight but still get over it..In spite of all this it seems like nothing will ever change forever..And truly believe that FOREVER has no deadline at all.. It like beyond anyone’s reach.

What you forget is GOD has own plans and life takes you in its own rules.
What it was FOREVER is now just a moment for eternity.
One day...Believe me there is a day where nothing is the same...

EGO ,EMOTIONS,PRIDE,FRIENDSHIP,RELATIONSHIP...Everything in vain...
Nothing is officially announced. All you need to have is little commonsense to understand what’s lifes rules are like..Try bending them n you will always keep trying..
Yes you would miss them definitely..What else did you expect??? Days go by.. Don’t bend your rules now..Tired of bending life’s rules..Ego’s turn up.. And starts playing its rule perfectly. Pain its not the same anymore..You get to be shrewd..Silent..Lose faith in forever..somehow you stop believing in the terms “Best friend”/”soul mate”... Somehow you never want anyone in your life anymore..



Your mind knows you better...Starts questioning you why,how,when,if????? You wll keep searching for answers all through you life and will never get the exact answer you need coz you know the answer already....The million answers you receive will not soothe your pain nor will get that one person to you.

Inspite of all this I am not afraid of pain,not afraid of losing hope,faith trust...All i am afraid of is that today i am still missing him....But what if tomorrow i wont.

RELATIONSHIPS ARE WORTH FIGHTING FOR BUT SOMETIMES YOU CAN’T BE THE ONLY ONE FIGHTING.SOMETIMES,PEOPLE NEED TO FIGHT FOR YOU.



And it hurts so much when they don’t ....
Adding fuel to the flames is a part where they never talk to you about this and it hurts more when you really act like everything is better

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There comes a point in your life when you realize:


Who matters,


Who never did,


Who won't anymore....


And who always will..


Lose them in the crowd...


And there's one stop solution


T I M E


It will force you to accept and move forward.


All is fair in love and war... No even in FRIENDSHIP...





May be freindship is not to last long..Maybe it has an expiry date too..


Someone once asked a learned man


When is it time to end a friendship?


The man smiled and replied


When you get that sneaky feeling that in never really began.





A best friend is none but the best among the few we have,He may not be a messiah but a simple human being with his own set of emotions and perceptions that reason those emotions.Even if he is your soul mate..Yes i do accept we guys see through two different set eyes!But still isnt it accepting who you are than making the other change is friendship..To accept the absense is real gift coz thoughts over it would gift you fake promises and bewildered mind!Emotionally turbulent mind fails to think logically!!








I am living my life yet it is beautiful... Still lot more to go n i know i can still love my life with more passion and pride!!! Adios!!!!~

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